Asking for Help

The struggle with on-going sin in the life of a believer is obvious.

I know that I have sins in my life that need to be rooted out.

You know that I have sins in my life.

I know that you have sins in your life.

Like the Geico commercial: "Everybody knows that."

Yet when we come together it's easier to talk about the weather, work, activities, family, other people - anything but our sins and temptations.

We'll easily talk about our aches and pains, but not our spiritual health.

But at the same time we long for someone to come alongside of us and to help us. We want help to gain victory, but we don't want to open up.

We want someone to practice Galatians 6:1-2 with us.

"Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

We ache for someone to bear our burdens, but we aren't willing to let anyone know what they are.

The help then comes after we've fallen. After we've crashed and burned. Everything has fallen apart and our sin is exposed.

Why is that?

Fear of rejection. Fear of abandonment. Fear of man.

Rather than calling out to God and to our spiritual brothers, we fight alone.

We live in the sin of unbelief, because we don't take God at His word.

We make no progress, because we're afraid of what others will think about us.

We remain trapped, because we don't want to reach out to the life ring that has been thrown to us.

What do we need to do?

Humble ourselves. Confess sin. Ask for help.

Victory is possible, but none of us can do it alone.

Mardi Gras

Today is Fat Tuesday, which is the translation of the French term, "mardi gras." It is the last day of feasting and frivolity before the time of fasting and solemnity preceding Easter. For some it will be a day of eating donuts, pancakes and other fatty foods, before they give up something for Lent. For many others it's a day of wild parties, where various acts of sinful behavior are committed. Often these acts are committed behind masks, so that there can be no harm done, no guilt credited. Millions around the world will return to their homes in a drunken or doped up stage, having participated in various acts of indecency and sexual perversion.

Followers of Jesus Christ will decry mardi gras activities. They will avoid drunkenness, drugs and debauchery. They will stay away from the activities of carnival (festival of the flesh).

Well, at least the extremes...

How many will fulfill the desires of the works of the flesh listed in Galatians 6?

"Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies and things like these..." (Gal 6:19-20)

By the way, you don't get to pick and choose. Not even 99.99% is a passing grade. Not even an occasional event of one of these works gets you off the hook. Even a thought of one makes you as guilty as the one whose life is characterized by all of them.

But that's okay.

We'll get cleaned up before AWANA and prayer meeting on Wednesday.

I'll do my hair up nice and smile real pretty in the choir.

My sermon on Sunday will be so good, that no one will suspect anything.

How is that any different than Fat Tuesday and Ash Wednesday?

Wallow in sin, but show up sparkly clean at church?

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires" (vs 22-24).

"Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, to make you obey its passions. Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness" (Romans 6:12-13).

The Christian life that is a cycle of Fat Tuesdays and Ash Wednesdays is not what God intends. We have been declared to be holy. We are to live holy.

All the time.